I'm back!!! Feels like forever since I posted here. All summer, in fact. And what a summer this has been!
I spent huge amounts of time helping my sister-in-law long distance plan her Big Fat Indian Wedding (she's in San Francisco and the wedding was in Boston) only to have it CANCELLED at the last minute due to hurricane Irene!!
Ever get the feeling that you're in a bad movie? That such things couldn't possibly be happening to you, only they are? That's what this was like. We had planned things down to the last detail, but had to start over with hours not months to make everything happen.
They did have a beautiful wedding after all. Only it was a day earlier at the temple instead of the gorgeous Elm Bank reservation in Wellesley. And the reception was (shock, horror!) at my house.
I'd planned to have the henna ceremony (mehndi) at my house anyway, so we just threw it open to anyone who could make it. A great caterer, an amazing set of friends (Amy, Reetu, Denise and Martha: You ROCK!), a big tent, and my father-in-law's construction crew made it possible to welcome everyone into my not-so-huge home.

There was chaos, confusion, laughter, celebration, umbrellas, wet saris, and a magical garage jam session (the groom is in a band, and his mates were all there, with their guitars!) It was perfect. And the smiles on the faces of the bride and groom made it all worthwhile.Now the wedding and hurricane is done, the kids are back at school, the last guests are leaving tomorrow, so I can actually get my life back :)! Not that I would have traded the whole crazy experience for all the peace and quiet in the world! I mean, this stuff is gold, right? Better get writing ... ;)

4 comments:
While we watched the hurricane from our windows, I mentioned to my husband, "Boy, I feel sorry for anyone who planned a wedding this weekend!"
Glad you were able to pull everything together (and still look gorgeous)!
Thanks, Faith! I'm glad we pulled it together too. And at least they have an awesome story for their grandchildren!
OH MY GOSH. What an ending to a fabulous tale. It's so unbelievable that you couldn't make it up! I can't wait to hear the details!!!
Hi Heather, Yeah, it was that weekend :)!!! I have to give you the whole story over coffee one of these days. I'll see if Martha is interested in meeting up too :)
(BTW Martha was a huge help the day of the wedding. She came over and walked Yogi while we were stuck at the temple, and then stayed and helped out. She even washed dishes. I'm really lucky in my friends!)
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